Monthly Archives: December 2011

Coping With Pain and Guilt   by Kimmy

As the new parent of a special needs child, you will go through all The Stages Of Grief because grief is the response to unmet expectations. Grief is a process that takes time to complete. The first stage of grief is denial. The second stage of grief deals with
the pain and the guilt of the situation.

Dealing with the pain of grief can be devastating. It is, however, imperative that you intentionally deal with it. If you choose not to face this aspect of grief head on, you and your child may suffer even more at a later time. Avoiding the pain of grief can cause physical symptoms that will inhibit your ability to properly care for your new baby.

Sometimes, in our culture, we attempt to put limits on the Grieving process. We tell people,